“People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.” Elizabeth KГјbler-Ross
Becoming disabled puts one into a dark place. Few of us shine when we first become disabled. In fact it might better be called, вЂњA Dark Place of the SoulвЂќ. For that is what it feels like.
When first Disabled, We tend to do a lot of soul searching.
This soul searching takes many forms. All tend to start with looking backed over what has happened to us.
Initially, we try to find our footing. What is going on? Will it change more? Hopefully for the better, and not for the worse.
When I left medical practice, I started on a medication for another potentially life threatening illness. That medication made my eyesight could up overnight. I paused in the treatment and found that it would reverse. Then I had the question of would it reverse after months of use? If it did not could I live with the clouds? I took the medication and the clouds stayed, but the illness was cured. I donвЂ™t think the clouds are gone after 10 years.
I was already legally blind and thus could use rehab services. I did not have to try working. I did look for non clinical jobs, but with no luck.
Had my physician messed up?
This is asked my most. For me I had gone to one of the worldвЂ™s experts. I had often talked to him and he had recently written the article about glaucoma in my favorite medical journal. I do have a few questions and suggestions for him, but no major criticisms.
Did God do this to me?
Many people have an image of an all controlling God. As long as this sort of God letвЂ™s things go our way, we donвЂ™t challenge this God. Job of the Bible struggled with such an understanding of God.
Job was faultless, but we are not. It is easy to blame ourselves for becoming disabled. Some will try to repent and bargain with God. Others reject God. That only punishes themselves. They have cut themselves off from god.
Finally, we are where we are, like it or Not.
That is when we must rekindle our light within. If we donвЂ™t we remain like that stained glass window, hard to see itsвЂ™ color. Those who remain bitter and angry never shine again. Those who find ways to enjoy life shine.
How will you rekindle your light for life?
Rekindling your light for life takes help. Friends and Family have few resources to offer. Rehab professionals have programs to fill. Life coaches need for you to succeed and refer others.
As All Ways, Seek Joy,
Coach Dr. Dave